A character (or fictional character) is a person in a narrative work of art . Derived from the ancient Greek word χαρακτήρ, the English word dates from the Restoration, although it became widely used after its appearance in Tom Jones in 1749. From this, the sense of “a part played by an actor” developed. Character, particularly when enacted by an actor in the theatre or cinema, involves “the illusion of being a human person.” In literature, characters guide readers through their stories, helping them to understand plots and ponder themes
What is character ?
Character is a pattern of behavior, thoughts and feelings based on universal principles, moral strength, and integrity, plus the capabilities to live by those principles every day. Character is evidenced by your life’s virtues and the “line you never cross.” Character is the most valuable thing you have, and nobody can ever take it away.
Why character is necessary ?
Character is the very important part of our life. because you are meet any unknown person and you don’t nothing about him then if you can check his character then you have atleast idea how his nature. your character is affecting in your both life- your personal life and your social life. so, don’t take it easy. here i give you how to to develop a good character.
“Knowledge will give you power but your character will give you respect”
This is the most convenient way to generate your good character. Get up early morning and pray to god. you can also read any spiritual books like shrimad bhagavad gita, bible, quran etc which you believe in god. you can also watch some spiritual show in TV. in early morning, yoga or meditation are also helpful to generate a character.
Keep in mind every time your successful person
During a whole day, we do lots of things but when will do any critical task at that time you require sharp decision and visualize in your mind, your successful person and think if they are may be in this situation then what should he do? Think with their angle and try to find solution.
Greatest example of this thing is ekalavya who taught archery without his presence of teacher. He just keep statue of his teacher guru drona, in front of him and taught archery. you can also read full story…
Get out from the comfort zone
To improve character means how to behave and control in tough and uncomfortable situations. like Due to some natural hazards at that time no. of persons are injure. so, do something for their and go out from your comfort zone.
Travel to uncomfortable places and figure out how to make yourself feel at home. Walk around a town you’ve never been in and get someone to ask you for directions.
If you working in your comfort zone or do not take any challenge then you can’t improve your character. Because without any problem you can’t take experience of how we can feel in problems and what should he do in this situation. You are fail to face the problem that is second thing but main thing is how much you get new things on it. these are help in future. for example..
At work, volunteer for extra responsibilities, put in extra hours at the office, and go above and beyond each time you do your work. Whatever you do, do it right.
Try to keep positive thinking
If you generate your positive character then your thinking must be positive. because your character depends on the your mind. so, your mind is everything for your character. If your mind think negative and then you will become characterless person. so, don’t come negative thoughts in your minds and be positive at every time. positive think make you gentleman and consecutively you became good character man. like always keep in your mind…
“Arise, awaken and don’t stop until you reach the goal.”
Make good friends
Friends are play important role improve character. Because we spends lots of time with our friends. some friends are good or some are bad. so we must decide that which friends are help to you for improve your character. It is not necessary that your friend are always good. if you notice that some friends are do misbehave then understand them. then after they don’t keep your warning at that time stop friendship with him. make a new friends. you can make new friends in your…
if you are student then make friend in your school/college.
if you are worker then make friends in your office/company.
if you have a habit to go in jogging in early morning at that time you can make friends.
Give respect and get respect
If you want to get respect from someone then you must first give respect to him. it is same as if want to earn money and you don’t investment any kind of money. it is not possible get respect without give respect. If you are in big position in your company then many people gives salute to you but this salute/respect is not for you but it’s for your position. so, don’t under estimate any man and give respect.
“ Respect is not imposed nor begged, it’s earned and offered ”
Focus on your extraordinary skills
You must be first evaluation your skills and find out of them which are in deeply interested and focus on it. like someone deeply interested in singing but he jobs in any mechanical company then no problem because when you have free time you can reage of your singing skills and become a good singer.
If you are work in your interested skill then your personality and are charecter are much different than your forcefully work. you feel the comfort in your workplace and automatically improve your character.
Join any Social group as a volunteer
Social service are improves your character and this done by you if and if you are volunteer. If you are think how to I helpful to society ? then you must become a volunteer. To connect any social group and start working with your colleague volunteer.
Due to social activities, we can feel mental satisfaction and feel the relax. This thing learn how to behave in front of needy person and how to treat him.